You may say that you’re staying together for your kids, but are you sure it’s not really for yourself, so that you don’t have to face the problems in your marriage? Facing up to those problems may mean splitting up. Divorce is a huge change, and we’re all scared of change. On the other hand, if you are determined to stay together, you really have to work at the relationship and that’s another scary prospect. Of course, parents do make decisions...